I am a woman of 44 and I have been married for 15 years. My previous marriage ended in divorce, after 10 years of unhappiness, because my husband was addicted to porn. The last 4-5 years he has had several affairs with women around our town, mostly younger than me (36-40).
My life is not the same since we separated except that i live alone and am involved in volunteer work at church and school activities.
Recently two women came to me whom I did not know: they wanted help getting back together with their ex boyfriends who were still married but estranged from their spouses and would like us to modify our wills or marry them so that he can get his alimony payment while she gets her share of the house after it is sold by him. Of course this means I will lose half my $$ inheritance which won’t be such a big deal if I die soon anyway (60 y/o) but there are no guarantees about dying shortly after marrying these women; one might make arrangements for her children etc while divorcing him — making it more complicated when we eventually leave each other… Any advice on how best to handle this? There must be someone out there better qualified than myself (even though I graduated summa cum laude from law school!) Thanks! Hello all,I am a woman of 44 and I have been married for 15 years. My previous marriage ended in divorce, after 10 years of unhappiness, because